Today Grandma reminded ....

Today, like a regular event, brother's girlfriend came over the house for lunch..

As i was rushing out to meet my friends, i went out straight after lunch.

While i was wearing my shoes, Grandma, sitting at her favourite spot of the sofa..
Suddenly said : "Ah Wei ah... Time to go find a girlfriend already..."
I was shocked, as this was first time she said this to me, so i only smiled back saying : "Yes, am trying hard.."
And, rushed out of the house.

She was not the only one in the family "hinting" me.. anyway.. (Mum, Uncles, Aunties..)

With another wedding dinner of a classmate on coming Monday, what Grandma said to me keep repeating in my mind.

Not that i din work hard, alright...
Many years back, i did bring a girlfriend home.. but broke up with her.
During Army days, there was another girlfriend, which she broke up with me..
Both relationship was less than a year.

Anyway, the both ex-girlfriends are doing good and got married, in which i am happy for them too. =)

And Fate stopped there. (Since year 2000? Lost count too...)

Let nature take its course, Hong Wei.

Some things, cannot rush one... Right?